The new ideas and the old ways often clash. The same can be said for progressive parenting ideas versus traditional ideas. The older generation did things much differently than today’s parents. This is especially true with regards to parenting issues like discipline, acceptable child behaviors, and new ways of parenting. In communities where traditional culture is strong, these differences of opinion can become very serious matters. Arguments and all out feuds have been known to occur. At the very least, there are usually hurt feelings. These are not insurmountable problems. Traditional values still have their place in this progressively modern world.
All people need to feel a sense of worth and value. Most people want to be involved in stable healthy relationships. Traditional cultural communities are wonderful support networks. The key to blending the old ways with the new is to make everyone’s opinion matter. Most disagreements come when people are quick to react. Exposing the younger children to traditional values can be a valuable asset. The children get the best of both worlds. If treated respectfully, people are more likely to respond favorably toward newer ways of thought. Involve all generations in the sharing of common traditions and values.